The first story I ever wrote – about an effort to build a school in a sister city overseas – appeared in 1991. I had been working at the regional newspaper for about a year and had worked my way from editorial assistant to full-fledged reporter, and I was shaking at the thought of my words going out for the whole world (well, at least about 90,000 southwest Virginia readers) to see.
All of a sudden I had gone from the relative anonymity of public service announcement writing, compiling wedding listings and school lunch menus to putting something out there that had my NAME on it, undeniably me, for better or worse.
It’s sort of like standing naked in front of a doctor, all vulnerable and nerve-wracking. Worse though, your critics are anonymous, letter-writing people who never have to make their jabs up close and personal, like a doctor.
That was some thousands of stories ago – I long ago stopped keeping track of the stories I’ve written – and it has definitely gotten easier. But there’s always a part of me that still quakes a little with every published piece.
And to be honest, I think that is as it should be. While I’ve gained a lot more confidence with my writing over the years, I also am keenly aware of my very “human-ness,” and the reality that mistakes will happen. It keeps me honest, one my toes, when writing, and that is probably a good thing.
It seems that no matter how hard one tries and no matter how meticulously one thinks they have worked on a story, there will be times that mistakes will happen.
They can, and do, happen to us all, and the degree of mistake varies as well. I’ve made errors ranging from the omission of a letter that creates a misspelling (“She hats that soup” vs. “She hates that soup”) to the misspelling of a name (an egregious mistake because Rule No. 1 in journalism is “Always doublecheck spellings of names.”) to getting dates, phone numbers or other critical information wrong. They were honest errors everyone and all journalists make from time to time – don’t let anyone tell you they don’t, either.
The challenge, of course, is to always strive for that perfection, to approach each story as if it will be flawless and most of the time, that’s exactly what happens.
But those aren’t the stories worth telling. It’s the cringe-inducing “How could I have done that?” stories that, as we say in the writing business “Make the Headlines.”
Worst error from my rookie years: I was writing about a meeting of the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR), an antiquated posse of old ladies who get together to relive the glory years of pre-computer, pre-teenage angst, pre-automobiles, shopping centers, McMansions on the hill (other than the plantations of course...). Other than that, I'm not exactly sure what they do.
So these women were already intimidating enough, looking me over (I was just 24, straight out of college and very wet behind the ears as far as journalism goes), approving or disapproving of my outfit, watching my every move for signs of "good breeding." It was all very uncomfortable, but I managed to smile and nod and scribble furiously the notes in my reporter's notebook.
I rushed back to the office to write up the story, feeling accomplished and successful at a long day' worth of work. I doublechecked spellings of names, made sure the facts were correct and filed the story under the old computers we used for publishing at the time.
Then I drove home, probably went for a long run or relaxed on the front porch and waited for another day.
It came -- all too soon. No sooner had I woken up when my home phone rang unforgivably early (reporters generally don't even start their work day until 10 a.m.). I answered, bleary eyed and half awake and was immediately taken to task by a very old and angry sounding woman who was none too happy with my story.
I will spare you the excruciating details of the rest of my day, as the phone rang at the office repeatedly, each one an angry spinster scoffing at my ignorance. A few of the calls even made it to my editor, the daughter of a Daughter of the American Revolution, who, thankfully, took pity on my stupidity and chalked it up to experience.
The mistake: In my zeal to get every fact, name, date, etc. correct, I swiftly wrote a sentence in the story about the people for whom the Daughters of the American Revolution hold their meetings. But instead of calling them the "ancestors" of the DAR, I called them the "descendents." Stupid mistake, the result of a mind typing faster than it edits, but it made it into the paper, past the editors, past the copy editor, and now I looked like the moron I felt I was.
Fortunately, this was a minor error in the big scheme of things -- I didn't defame anyone or create huge legal problems for the paper. I'm sure I've made worse errors since.
But that one scarred me for life. Because I know there are (or "were" -- this was many years ago, after all...) a bunch of casserole baking, gray-haired women out there in a certain region of Virginia who shake their heads and cluck at "stupid kids these days."
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Thursday, February 19, 2009
No more mystery letters
Hey, Kristy, this note is for you. Check out the "comments" section -- you should be able to post now without that annoying "identify letters-spinning forever" thing happening. Let me know how it works! Best to all you hard-working writers out there. Keep it coming, word by word...
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Dreams vs. Real Life
Another week begins and for the first time in as long as I can remember, I can go, "Ahhhhh."
That's right. No pending deadlines. No major stories due yesterday that I'm trying to catch up on. No urgent to-do list items weighing on me. It's a very unusual feeling, and one I can't relish for too long.
But then again, that's what it's like living the life of a freelancer. You have to take the work as it comes, and sometimes it comes in bucketloads. Other times, it's a vast desert of emptiness, with no writing assignments in sight.
And that's what I'm thinking about as I write today -- took a little breather from my usual Monday writing routine since the kids were off from school and all. One of my blog followers, Kristy -- who knows, maybe my only follower! -- wrote to me with an interesting and valid question about freelancing, living the way I do. She's been having trouble posting her comments on the site for some reason (if anyone else is also having problems, please let me know, so I can figure out what's going on!) but sent me this email, that I will share with you because it's a great discussion about the art of writing, how to pursue it as a true career, and how to manage it.
Kristy was writing in response to last week's post, in which I talked about my inability to ever live an 8-to-5 existence and preferring instead the unpredictability but freedom of freelancing. Here's what she had to say:
"Wow, sounds like a very interesting and enjoyable life you live as a freelance writer. The flexibility and comfort (despite the turmoil that comes with it) of working independently are definitely a huge plus over the 8-5 madness, especially if you CAN make enough cash to pay bills and everything else. After speaking with two friends who are writers (one of them is a single mom), they shared that freelance work alone is not enough to make ends meet and quite inconsistent (is this accurate?). So, they're stuck with the 8-5 gig, they don't have a choice right now. I have a question, are you a single earner? If not, do you rely on a primary income and your freelance income is an addition to the first? If that's the case, then the picture you're painting may not be very realistic to a lot of folks like my friends. I think it's neat that you're able to do this BUT I don't think everyone has that luxury, considering the state of our faulting economy right now. Any thoughts out there from anyone?" Kristy
So, here are my thoughts on the topic. To answer Kristy's first question, no, I am not a single earner, which is a huge point, especially now that I have kids and a mortgage and other responsibilities. There is no way I could support my family just on the income I make from freelancing as it is right now, because I don't pursue as much work as I believe is out there. My working hours are approximately 20 to 25 a week, depending on my deadlines and numbers of assignments going on. I did, at one point in my single life, support myself on freelancing, but I lived much more simply than most people would prefer (they were actually some of the best days of my life, but that's another story...) and had no debt or children or other responsibilities.
My current writing life is a setup by choice. With two young children at home, I feel a large part of my "job" is taking care of them, getting them to and from school, activities, and simply being there for them. That is a job I take seriously, too. So I purposefully try to keep my writing hours at a minimum.
But what I meant in last week's post -- about not being able to keep those steady hours of an 8-to-5 -- would still apply if I were a single mom. Could I make it alone as a freelancer? I honestly think there are plenty more writing opportunities out there than people are willing to take on. Some of them -- writing press releases, editing medical journals or technical manuals, doing research for books in progress -- can be tedious and do not particularly hone your "craft," but they do pay the bills and can provide a steady income in between the exciting magazine pieces you might be wanting to write.
Second, if I were a single mom, I still would shy away from an 8-to-5. My background is in journalism, and even when I was a sole-income-earner, working in that field remained interesting. As a reporter, the hours were varied, some weeks crazy busy and others slower than average. The ups and downs and changes in routine kept the job fresh for me, and I got out of the office constantly to cover assignments. From my first cub reporting job back in Virginia in 1990 to my last at the Anchorage Daily News that I left in 2008, the ability to get out and about, THEN sit down at a computer to write is what kept me sane. That will never change, even with my freelance writing.
Another thing Kristy brought up that her writing friends mentioned -- that freelancing is inconsistent. This is, of course, an understatement. Working as a freelancer, you pretty much have to take the assignments you get, when they come. Sometimes they all come at once and you have a brain-crushing three-week period in which you live on caffeine and late nights. Other times it's slow and you wonder where the money will come from. That alone -- the money part -- is a challenge because depending upon the publication, you may be paid when the story is assigned (rare but it does happen), when it's accepted by the editor, or upon publication. And editors change their minds at a drop of the hat, haphazardly moving your April story to the November issue, meaning you won't get paid until November.
It's maddening really, the "check's in the mail" mentality that makes you never really know when or how much you will make in a given month.
All I can say about this aspect of writing, is that there ARE ways to make it less painful. Find writing gigs that are freelance or contract but that are somewhat scheduled. I have one standing writing "job" like that, which helps me budget some money that I know will be coming in month to month, and I constantly look for other opportunities to take on regular freelance work that is predictable and dependable.
Freelance writing is by no means an easy way to live, especially if you are at all an orderly, scheduled type of person. And it is not glamorous in any way --- stressful, unpredictable and all-encompassing. The convenience factor of working at home is often outweighed by the fact that my work never leaves me -- it's there at my desk staring me down when I'm trying to play a game of Blokus with the kids. It weighs on my mind when I'm trying to enjoy dinner with the family. It plays guilt trips with me when I weigh, "Do I run the dogs today or get more work done on the kayaking story?" I can move the computer to another room, but inevitably, I slip back in, drawn to it like a druggie, needing to get in a few last paragraphs before falling asleep.
For whateve reason, those of us who love to write will always do it. We will always find a way to make the words come, whether it's in a journal, for an assignment or a letter to a friend. Don't give up, whether you're a single mom struggling to make ends meet, an independently wealthy jetsetter with places to go and people to meet or someone in-between, like me, who, for whatever reason, is motivated by words and their power.
That's right. No pending deadlines. No major stories due yesterday that I'm trying to catch up on. No urgent to-do list items weighing on me. It's a very unusual feeling, and one I can't relish for too long.
But then again, that's what it's like living the life of a freelancer. You have to take the work as it comes, and sometimes it comes in bucketloads. Other times, it's a vast desert of emptiness, with no writing assignments in sight.
And that's what I'm thinking about as I write today -- took a little breather from my usual Monday writing routine since the kids were off from school and all. One of my blog followers, Kristy -- who knows, maybe my only follower! -- wrote to me with an interesting and valid question about freelancing, living the way I do. She's been having trouble posting her comments on the site for some reason (if anyone else is also having problems, please let me know, so I can figure out what's going on!) but sent me this email, that I will share with you because it's a great discussion about the art of writing, how to pursue it as a true career, and how to manage it.
Kristy was writing in response to last week's post, in which I talked about my inability to ever live an 8-to-5 existence and preferring instead the unpredictability but freedom of freelancing. Here's what she had to say:
"Wow, sounds like a very interesting and enjoyable life you live as a freelance writer. The flexibility and comfort (despite the turmoil that comes with it) of working independently are definitely a huge plus over the 8-5 madness, especially if you CAN make enough cash to pay bills and everything else. After speaking with two friends who are writers (one of them is a single mom), they shared that freelance work alone is not enough to make ends meet and quite inconsistent (is this accurate?). So, they're stuck with the 8-5 gig, they don't have a choice right now. I have a question, are you a single earner? If not, do you rely on a primary income and your freelance income is an addition to the first? If that's the case, then the picture you're painting may not be very realistic to a lot of folks like my friends. I think it's neat that you're able to do this BUT I don't think everyone has that luxury, considering the state of our faulting economy right now. Any thoughts out there from anyone?" Kristy
So, here are my thoughts on the topic. To answer Kristy's first question, no, I am not a single earner, which is a huge point, especially now that I have kids and a mortgage and other responsibilities. There is no way I could support my family just on the income I make from freelancing as it is right now, because I don't pursue as much work as I believe is out there. My working hours are approximately 20 to 25 a week, depending on my deadlines and numbers of assignments going on. I did, at one point in my single life, support myself on freelancing, but I lived much more simply than most people would prefer (they were actually some of the best days of my life, but that's another story...) and had no debt or children or other responsibilities.
My current writing life is a setup by choice. With two young children at home, I feel a large part of my "job" is taking care of them, getting them to and from school, activities, and simply being there for them. That is a job I take seriously, too. So I purposefully try to keep my writing hours at a minimum.
But what I meant in last week's post -- about not being able to keep those steady hours of an 8-to-5 -- would still apply if I were a single mom. Could I make it alone as a freelancer? I honestly think there are plenty more writing opportunities out there than people are willing to take on. Some of them -- writing press releases, editing medical journals or technical manuals, doing research for books in progress -- can be tedious and do not particularly hone your "craft," but they do pay the bills and can provide a steady income in between the exciting magazine pieces you might be wanting to write.
Second, if I were a single mom, I still would shy away from an 8-to-5. My background is in journalism, and even when I was a sole-income-earner, working in that field remained interesting. As a reporter, the hours were varied, some weeks crazy busy and others slower than average. The ups and downs and changes in routine kept the job fresh for me, and I got out of the office constantly to cover assignments. From my first cub reporting job back in Virginia in 1990 to my last at the Anchorage Daily News that I left in 2008, the ability to get out and about, THEN sit down at a computer to write is what kept me sane. That will never change, even with my freelance writing.
Another thing Kristy brought up that her writing friends mentioned -- that freelancing is inconsistent. This is, of course, an understatement. Working as a freelancer, you pretty much have to take the assignments you get, when they come. Sometimes they all come at once and you have a brain-crushing three-week period in which you live on caffeine and late nights. Other times it's slow and you wonder where the money will come from. That alone -- the money part -- is a challenge because depending upon the publication, you may be paid when the story is assigned (rare but it does happen), when it's accepted by the editor, or upon publication. And editors change their minds at a drop of the hat, haphazardly moving your April story to the November issue, meaning you won't get paid until November.
It's maddening really, the "check's in the mail" mentality that makes you never really know when or how much you will make in a given month.
All I can say about this aspect of writing, is that there ARE ways to make it less painful. Find writing gigs that are freelance or contract but that are somewhat scheduled. I have one standing writing "job" like that, which helps me budget some money that I know will be coming in month to month, and I constantly look for other opportunities to take on regular freelance work that is predictable and dependable.
Freelance writing is by no means an easy way to live, especially if you are at all an orderly, scheduled type of person. And it is not glamorous in any way --- stressful, unpredictable and all-encompassing. The convenience factor of working at home is often outweighed by the fact that my work never leaves me -- it's there at my desk staring me down when I'm trying to play a game of Blokus with the kids. It weighs on my mind when I'm trying to enjoy dinner with the family. It plays guilt trips with me when I weigh, "Do I run the dogs today or get more work done on the kayaking story?" I can move the computer to another room, but inevitably, I slip back in, drawn to it like a druggie, needing to get in a few last paragraphs before falling asleep.
For whateve reason, those of us who love to write will always do it. We will always find a way to make the words come, whether it's in a journal, for an assignment or a letter to a friend. Don't give up, whether you're a single mom struggling to make ends meet, an independently wealthy jetsetter with places to go and people to meet or someone in-between, like me, who, for whatever reason, is motivated by words and their power.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Staring at the screen
First of all, apologies for my recent absence -- off to Virginia to surprise my folks for their 50th wedding anniversary, which was lots of fun and very meaningful. Now I'm back here in Alaska, back to real life, and back to babbling on about the writer's life in the dead of a cold-Alaska winter.
Where to begin?...
Sometimes I think being a writer is the best possible career on the planet. I mean, where else can you combine thoughts, snippets of conversations, theories and other day-to-day nonsense that happens and somehow mold it into something someone might want to read? (And even get paid for it?)
Other times, writing seems a curse, something that is always lurking there in the back of your mind, never letting you rest, reminding you how inadequate your thoughts are, how stupid your ideas. There is the stress of what you SHOULD write, versus the reality of what often ends up on the page.
I can't tell you how many times I have started a story and gotten so frustrated by it that I just start pounding the keys in an incoherent "computer keyboard temper tantrum" --- fhksjth4o6u35y rlkdmflyu yo;lg -- something like that, often with choice "fuck-damn-shit"expletives thrown in for good measure.
I look at this behavior and realize it is the equivalent of someone yanking their piece of paper from the old typewriter, wadding it up into a ball and chucking it into the nearest trash can. I imagine this Hemingway-esque scene when I'm having my own pity party. But without the drama of such antiquated equipment, I abuse the keyboard instead. (I've vowed not to do this as much with my new computer but already have had a few mishaps...)
On days like those, I am at least thankful that anything went on the page at all. The worst scenario is when I stare at the computer screen, and my mind is a big, tired blank -- as open and cavernous as the white, wordless document I've created. There is nothing more strangling than knowing deadline is looming and the words are simply not there. Sure, the story is half written in my head already, the transitions smoothly documented in my mind's eye.
But it's not a story until the words are on paper. And some days, that just doesn't happen.
It is on days like those that I wonder what the hell I am doing with my life. The jumble of ideas and emotions in my brain, are they REALLY meant to be put on paper? Or are they better left off stuck there, swilling around like old beer to torment me intead of the general public?
At times like these, I want to insert myself into the being of an accountant, perhaps, a doctor or engineer or someone whose technical abilities dictate the success of their career, not the random blather that seems to seep out from between my ears. I want to know, "Are they constantly feeling the itch to scribble down thoughts and feelings or is this just some aberration on my part?"
Despite the turmoil surrounding this writer's life, I have to admit I can think of no better fit. I could never, in a million years, handle the 8-to-5 existence that the majority of the population is forced to endure. For me, it would be a slow, arduous descent toward death -- the afterlife, or whatever happens to us once our hearts stop beating. Given the choice, I'll take the torment of writing over that any day.
So it is that my writing Monday has begun. The fingers are moving, the page is filling up. Whether I've written anything worth reading? I don't know. But at least it's right here on the screen, not all screwed up in my head. And that in itself is a serenity worth pursuing.
Where to begin?...
Sometimes I think being a writer is the best possible career on the planet. I mean, where else can you combine thoughts, snippets of conversations, theories and other day-to-day nonsense that happens and somehow mold it into something someone might want to read? (And even get paid for it?)
Other times, writing seems a curse, something that is always lurking there in the back of your mind, never letting you rest, reminding you how inadequate your thoughts are, how stupid your ideas. There is the stress of what you SHOULD write, versus the reality of what often ends up on the page.
I can't tell you how many times I have started a story and gotten so frustrated by it that I just start pounding the keys in an incoherent "computer keyboard temper tantrum" --- fhksjth4o6u35y rlkdmflyu yo;lg -- something like that, often with choice "fuck-damn-shit"expletives thrown in for good measure.
I look at this behavior and realize it is the equivalent of someone yanking their piece of paper from the old typewriter, wadding it up into a ball and chucking it into the nearest trash can. I imagine this Hemingway-esque scene when I'm having my own pity party. But without the drama of such antiquated equipment, I abuse the keyboard instead. (I've vowed not to do this as much with my new computer but already have had a few mishaps...)
On days like those, I am at least thankful that anything went on the page at all. The worst scenario is when I stare at the computer screen, and my mind is a big, tired blank -- as open and cavernous as the white, wordless document I've created. There is nothing more strangling than knowing deadline is looming and the words are simply not there. Sure, the story is half written in my head already, the transitions smoothly documented in my mind's eye.
But it's not a story until the words are on paper. And some days, that just doesn't happen.
It is on days like those that I wonder what the hell I am doing with my life. The jumble of ideas and emotions in my brain, are they REALLY meant to be put on paper? Or are they better left off stuck there, swilling around like old beer to torment me intead of the general public?
At times like these, I want to insert myself into the being of an accountant, perhaps, a doctor or engineer or someone whose technical abilities dictate the success of their career, not the random blather that seems to seep out from between my ears. I want to know, "Are they constantly feeling the itch to scribble down thoughts and feelings or is this just some aberration on my part?"
Despite the turmoil surrounding this writer's life, I have to admit I can think of no better fit. I could never, in a million years, handle the 8-to-5 existence that the majority of the population is forced to endure. For me, it would be a slow, arduous descent toward death -- the afterlife, or whatever happens to us once our hearts stop beating. Given the choice, I'll take the torment of writing over that any day.
So it is that my writing Monday has begun. The fingers are moving, the page is filling up. Whether I've written anything worth reading? I don't know. But at least it's right here on the screen, not all screwed up in my head. And that in itself is a serenity worth pursuing.
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